This winter we had a pretty big ice storm here in TN. If you are from around here you know that when ice happens in TN, things get a little crazy. Well, in the middle of said ice storm, I needed to get to work so I decided to brave the ice and find a way out of our driveway.
After spending an hour trying to melt the ice off "Scooter" (my car) because it was too thick to scrape, I finally made enough progress to back out of my spot. I backed up and immediately started sliding around. I only had about 10 inches on both sides between my car and the large truck and SUV on either side. I then tried to pull forward and back up again only to start spinning with no traction and only movement closer to the cars beside me. I started to panic. I tried for a good 7 minutes and then remembered that 4 wheel drive is quite amazing for navigating icy streets. I was able to throw it into 4 wheel drive and then safely get out of the drive and not hit anything.
The point of telling you all that, is this:
We all get stuck. Sometimes we literally get stuck in the ice or we find ourselves in a place in life that seems like it will never end, get better or be what you really want.
In those times, it is easy to get discouraged and worried about how to get out of the rut you have found yourself in. We panic, freak out, pout, cry or scream because we just don't know what to do.
I have found three ways to get "unstuck" or at least find some movement in the right direction.
1. Be Grateful.
Take a moment to recount what got you where you are. Write down some lessons you learned along the way. Find at least 3 things to be grateful for in your journey here.
2. Look Back
Next, reflect on the things you have enjoyed in the past. What activities make you happy? What brings you immense joy? Is there some idea you have for your life that you can't seem to shake? When you were younger what were some of your dreams? Write those down.
3. Act on your passions.
Take a look at that list you made. Over the next 30 days, make time to pursue at least one of those things that you are passionate about. Love to paint? Dig out those supplies and get to it. Are you a singer? Grab a hairbrush and sing your heart out! So many times our passions lead to what is next and help us to navigate the road ahead.
What are you waiting for?